Borderline personality structure, also known as borderline personality disorder, appears frequently in life, sometimes even if we don't realize it.

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What are borderline personality traits?

Individuals with borderline personality structure often have problems balancing their emotions. This structure, whose moods often change, can sometimes feel very panicky and sometimes depressed. The relationship between black and white can be a good description of their feelings, since they usually live on two extremes. This affect also significantly affects the way they live their lives. This instability in their mental state causes them to react to the events that happen to them on their life journey, with limits such as "either very good, very bad", "all or nothing". We can often see these behaviors towards the people closest to us. For example, "when you are madly in love with someone and take it to the center of your life", it can turn into a situation where they devalue everything they hate in a momentary discussion or separation. The biggest fears of the borderline personality organization, which attaches importance to relationships and often makes sense of these relationships, are to be alone, to be separated or to be abandoned.

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Borderlines, who often feel worthless, can often act impulsively. These structures can enable them to establish a manipulative relationship ground in social relations, regardless of who the other person is. Most of the time, the way to prevent the feeling of worthlessness is to manipulate the other person and feel valuable through him, to get what he wants. Another feature seen in this personality structure is the unwillingness and resistance to take responsibility and grow. The individual tends to find someone who will do his/her work, make him/her feel good and take care of himself/herself, and spend time with those people.

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In this structure, which is usually difficult to stand in something for a long time and cannot stay stable for a long time, it can often be encountered with job, home, school or partner changes. In some cases, sudden attacks were observed in which they harmed the people around them or themselves.